Does Tim only approve of Helena's acting?

They have kids.  Tims seems stand-off-ish.  You know how you can relate to anyone with any job?  Well not so, and he's a very attractive artist that lots of people would like and do like.  It's hard to get is approval as a person.  I felt accepted.  But, ever since I in fun defended myself saying nigger daughter, he's seen or knows and I don't feel as accepted.  He even said he doesn't go online much.  Aw.  I tried to post so much on his IMDb board.